This is a quick and simple craft you can add to your Summer Bucket list of fun things to do with your kids this summer. We found easy to follow instructions over at Dealicious Mom. Click here to go there now.
Thursday, June 30, 2011
Free 4th Of July Celebration Printables
4th of July Kid Printable games
These Kaboose has a whole list of FUN 4th of July kid games and printables. Click here to visit Kaboose now.
4th of July Snack Cups
These would make perfect cups for kids to fill with their snacks during 4th of July celebrations. Print and stack a pile next to your chips and snacks on your buffet table. Skip to my lou created these festive snack cups. Click here to print yours.
4th of July Art for framing
Landee See, Landee Do create this free 4th of July printable that is perfect for framing and adding to your patriotic decorating. Click here to get your FREE printable.
4th of July Bingo
Play a fun game of 4th of July Bingo with these fun bingo cards you can download and print free over at bingo card printer. Click here to get yours now.
4th of July Road Sign Cupcake Toppers
Color Sizzle created these adorable free 4th of July Cupcake Toppers . Click here to get yours now.
These Kaboose has a whole list of FUN 4th of July kid games and printables. Click here to visit Kaboose now.
4th of July Snack Cups
These would make perfect cups for kids to fill with their snacks during 4th of July celebrations. Print and stack a pile next to your chips and snacks on your buffet table. Skip to my lou created these festive snack cups. Click here to print yours.
4th of July Art for framing
Landee See, Landee Do create this free 4th of July printable that is perfect for framing and adding to your patriotic decorating. Click here to get your FREE printable.
4th of July Bingo
Play a fun game of 4th of July Bingo with these fun bingo cards you can download and print free over at bingo card printer. Click here to get yours now.
4th of July Road Sign Cupcake Toppers
Color Sizzle created these adorable free 4th of July Cupcake Toppers . Click here to get yours now.
Couponing: Savings are Created Before You Shop
Couponing’s benefits, beyond money saved, are the importantvirtues and skills you’ll learn (or refine) to become a successful couponer. Contrary to spectacular savingsseen on TV in the space of 15 minutes of super shopping, these skills arerequired before you enter the store. Simply couponing to get a “good deal” can lead to overspending and apantry full of ingredients – but no meals.
Patience is needed both in the store and with yourcoupons. Marketers want you toclip the Sunday coupons – and use them sooner than is most valuable to you. Experience will show you that couponsheld until the corresponding sale occurs will save you more money. You may score further savings with a“Catalina” instant rebate or free item. That’s patience at work; creating opportunity with your preparation – soyou score the best deal.
Proper Organization – Clip your coupons and organize them ina manner which is ready to go with you – where you’ll find them when you needthem. Maintained organization meansless work and more value from the time you’ve spent on preparation. Most couponers do not remain with theirinitial organization methods, so choose one and be ready to revise as your couponingincreases.
Organization Possibilities:
Individualenvelopes for each store (with your meal plan and/or shopping list written onthe outside)
An index/recipe/shoe box containing separated coupons (inenvelopes or other sorts of dividers)
Purse-size coupon file; for longevity, choose plasticfiles. File coupons by commongrocery categories, alphabetically by brand name, or in order of your mostshopped grocery store – it’s your choice.
Coupon Binder; transform a zipper-closure, 3-ring binderinto an ergonomic couponing tool. Utilize 3-ring folders and page protector sleeves to hold couponpolicies, weekly ads, etc. Pocketsare handy for calculators, scissors, pens, envelopes, etc. Many money-saving couponer websiteshave photos and narrative instructions on how they organize coupons.
“The Couponizer”; A ready-to-use tool that is also designed with some customfeatures. This visual organizerincludes pockets for receipts, grocery list, and savings tracker. Its design is a combination between acoupon file and a coupon binder. You can use the included categories or using mailing labels, change thegroupings for what you buy most often.
As space allows, add files, pages or pockets for “RAOCK’s”(Random Acts of Coupon Kindesses), coupons you’ve found along the way but haveyet to file, “CheckOut Goodies”, and “Checkout Stack” – and, perhaps a file orpocket for each individual store on your route.
Coupon Insert Files: As you spread the word you’re couponing, you’ll collect more insertsthan you may clip from. To utilizeonline coupon databases, you’ll want to organize your insertschronologically. An accordionfile, filing cabinet drawer or large shoebox works well. Write the distribution date of theinsert in permanent marker on the front cover – as covers can be similar withina month’s time. The date is foundon the spine of the insert. Wherethe coupon insert came from is also on the spine, and helpful information ifyou want to seek out more of that particular insert.
Other Useful Tools:
From the same websites which you printed shopping lists, youcan also find “pantry” or “freezer” inventories. At-a-glance you can see what you have to plan meals with,and what perhaps needs to be added to your shopping list. Once you find an inventory sheetthat you like, expand your forms to include gift-closet lists and other placesin your life where important items come and go from. Use of what you have on hand, (that you already spent your money on) saves you time, money and energy over buyingit again at a higher price. “One-item” trips to the store or last minute holiday buying blitzes weknow, can be very damaging to our savings goals.
“Good Meals, Better Deals” is our next discussion, as wetalk about how to make great meals out of our shopping trips. Please share your organization ideas –and stay tuned for July’s series as we continue to share money-saving skills.
Conversation Starters For the 4th of July
Are you hosting a pic-nic or 4th of July BBQ? then you will love these fun patriotic conversation starters from Happy Home Fairy to get everyone talking and involved in the celebration. Click here to download and print your FREE conversation starters.
WIN - Sportcraft Foldable Ladderball Game
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Table Talk
Tonight's Table Talk
....to create conversation
Q:Do you read or study best in silence or in a place with background noise? Why?
Riddle:
Q: What would you get if you crossed a canary with a duck.
A: A cheep quacker.
(each day 24/7 MOMS posts a question and riddle to help you create dinner time conversation with your families)
....to create conversation
Q:Do you read or study best in silence or in a place with background noise? Why?
Riddle:
Q: What would you get if you crossed a canary with a duck.
A: A cheep quacker.
(each day 24/7 MOMS posts a question and riddle to help you create dinner time conversation with your families)
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Summer Supplies Organized
By Trisha
Summeris here, and for our family that means lots of park days, pool time,day trips and backyard playing. This also means lots of supplies topack and keep organized. Over the years I have discovered helpful tipsthat keep our summer supplies organized and ready for fun.Click here to read Trisha's tips to organize your summer supplies at SC Johnson
Be sure to leave me a comment over at SC Johnson
*Each week Trisha Blogs on SC Johnson Family Economics website as a paid writer be sure to read her weekly articles.
Popsicle Party Celebration Fun - Summer Bucket List
Add a Popsicle party to your Summer Bucket list of fun.
What party could be easier to plan? Simply pick up a variety of inexpensive boxes of Popsicles at your local grocery store, hand out invites to friends and family using the FREE polka dot Popsicle party invites from Party Box Design and you have created the easiest celebration ever.
There are also FREE downloads for favor boxes and tags along with a sign you can print out.
Click here to get your FREE Popsicle party printables from Party Box Design.
So, why not Celebrate summer, Celebrate end of the school year, Celebrate fun with a Popsicle party and make simple memories with your children.
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Patriotic Trail Mix
Sweet and Yummy are what makes this patriotic treat perfect for your 4th of July celebration. Visit Apples to Zucchini for the complete recipe and how to instructions.
DIY MOMS - 4th Of July Poppers
4th of July Poppers
Create some confetti celebration fun with these 4th of July Poppers tat Alpha Mom designed. Click here for free how to instructions.
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Popsicle has partnered withAirHeads, the taffy-like chewy candy, to create new Popsicle AirHeads ice pops.Popsicle AirHeads ice pops are designed to replicate the chew-tastic textureand flavors of AirHeads candy. Each fat-free ice pop contains 50 calories (100calories per two-pop serving). An 18-pack includes Strawberry, Blue Raspberry, Watermelonand White Mystery flavors.
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You Saw It This Week on 24/7 MOMS Live Webcast
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Table Talk
Tonight's Table Talk
....to create conversation
Q: Which do you prefer: the hustle and bustle of city life or the quiet and serenity of country life? Why?
Riddle:
Q: What did a one knife say to the other knife?
A: Look sharp
(each day 24/7 MOMS posts a question and riddle to help you create dinner time conversation with your families)
....to create conversation
Q: Which do you prefer: the hustle and bustle of city life or the quiet and serenity of country life? Why?
Riddle:
Q: What did a one knife say to the other knife?
A: Look sharp
(each day 24/7 MOMS posts a question and riddle to help you create dinner time conversation with your families)
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
My Favorite Patriotic Cookie For The 4th Of July
Two years ago I discovered this recipe from Taste of Home - it has become our families favorite 4th of July cookie.
Make these treatsthroughout the year by using different cookie cutter and food coloring.
Lemon Nut Star Cookies
SERVINGS: 33
METHOD: Baked
TIME: Prep: 25 min. + chilling Bake: 10 min./batch + cooling
METHOD: Baked
TIME: Prep: 25 min. + chilling Bake: 10 min./batch + cooling
Ingredients:
- 1 cup butter, softened
- 2 cups confectioners' sugar
- 2 eggs
- 2 tablespoons lemon juice
- 4 teaspoons half-and-half cream
- 2 teaspoons grated lemon peel
- 3-1/4 cups all-purpose flour
- 1/2 cup ground almonds
- 1/2 teaspoon baking soda
- 1/8 teaspoon salt
- GLAZE:
- 2 cups confectioners' sugar
- 1/4 cup light corn syrup
- 2 tablespoons lemon juice
- Red and blue food coloring
Directions:
Ina large bowl, cream butter and confectioners' sugar until light andfluffy. Add eggs, one at a time, beating well after each addition. Beatin the lemon juice, cream and lemon peel. Combine the flour, almonds,baking soda and salt; gradually add to creamed mixture. Cover andrefrigerate for 2 hours or until easy to handle.On a lightlyfloured surface, roll out dough to 1/8-in. thickness. Cut with afloured star-shaped cookie cutter. Place 1 in. apart on ungreasedbaking sheets. Bake at 350° for 8-10 minutes or until lightly browned.Remove to wire racks to cool.
For glaze, in a small bowl, combinethe confectioners' sugar, corn syrup and lemon juice until smooth.Divide into three bowls. Tint one portion red and one portion blue;leave the third portion plain. Spread over cookies; let stand overnightfor glaze to harden. Yield: about 5-1/2 dozen.
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Teaching Kids to Solve Their Own Problems
Last week 24/7 MOMS Webcast Show guest Liann Smith from Impact Parenting shared with us the importance of teaching our kids to handle their own problems. She gave us simple steps to follow using the Love and Logic parenting philosophy.
You can learn about these steps to help your child solve their own problems on the Love and Logic website. Click here to go to Love and Logic website and begin helping your kids solve their problems.
Did you miss last weeks Webcast? Watch it now by clicking the screen below
You can learn about these steps to help your child solve their own problems on the Love and Logic website. Click here to go to Love and Logic website and begin helping your kids solve their problems.
Did you miss last weeks Webcast? Watch it now by clicking the screen below
Dessert Kabobs For The 4th of July
This 4th of July serve your dessert on a stick with this yummy homemade pound cake and fruit kabob. Click here to go to Taste and Tell for complete recipe and how to instructions for this yummy dessert.
Lemonade Stand FREEbies - Summer Bucket List Fun
Every Summer my kids beg to set up their own Lemonade stand and sell their sweet drink to potential customers in hope of making the big bucks. This Summer add creating your own Lemonade stand to your Summer Bucket list of fun and to help you out get your FREE lemonade stand printables from Your Life Events.
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Table Talk
Tonight's Table Talk
....to create conversation
Q:When you confront someone, would you rather communicate in person, on the phone, by e-mail, or by letter? Why?
Riddle:
Q:What did they use to clean the Star Ship?
A: Spock 'n Span
(each day 24/7 MOMS posts a question and riddle to help you create dinner time conversation with your families)
....to create conversation
Q:When you confront someone, would you rather communicate in person, on the phone, by e-mail, or by letter? Why?
Riddle:
Q:What did they use to clean the Star Ship?
A: Spock 'n Span
(each day 24/7 MOMS posts a question and riddle to help you create dinner time conversation with your families)
Monday, June 27, 2011
Make Your Own Drumstick Clowns- Summer Bucket List Fun
There will be lots of "clowning around" when you serve these yummy, fun-to- make ice cream cone clowns! Add this fun yummy treat to your Summer bucket list of things to do with your kiddos this Summer.
Nestle gives us complete simple how to instructions - Click here for how to instructions.
Nestle gives us complete simple how to instructions - Click here for how to instructions.
This week on 24/7 MOMS - Time to Travel, Time to Camp
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Cupcake In A Jar For The 4th Of July
These Patriotic cupcakes in a jar are perfect for giving as gifts , serving for dessert or sending home as your party favor at this years 4th of July celebration. The Tomkat Studio gives complete how to instructions and even offers free cupcake toppers and labels to finish off your spectacular cupcake in a jar creations. Click here for you how to instructions.
Red, White and Blue Cupcakes For The 4th of July
Ingredients
White cake mix
Food coloring (red, blue, )
Cupcake Baking cups
Food coloring (red, blue, )
Cupcake Baking cups
- Instructions
- Prepareyour favorite white cake mix, then divide the batter evenly among threesmall bowls. Color one bowl of cake mix with red food coloring and onewith blue food coloring.
- Line cupcake pan withbaking cups. Evenly distribute the red , white and blue cake mix . Asyou fill them gently spread each layer of batter with the back of aspoon to cover the color underneath. I then placed a dab of red on topof each cupcake.
- Bake the cupcakes according cake mix directions.
- Frost and decorate as you choose.
FREE 4th of July Cupcake Toppers
Doll up your 4th of July cupcakes with these spectacular FREE cupcake toppers from Bella Grace Party design. Click here to get your Freebie downloads.
The Tomkat Studio created these free patriotic cupcake toppers that are perfect for your upcoming celebration. Click here to get your FREE printables.
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Table Talk
Tonight's Table Talk
....to create conversation
Q: What's your all time favorite movie? How many times have you seen it?
Riddle:
Q:What's the worst thing about being a octopus?
A: Washing your hands before dinner.
(each day 24/7 MOMS posts a question and riddle to help you create dinner time conversation with your families)
....to create conversation
Q: What's your all time favorite movie? How many times have you seen it?
Riddle:
Q:What's the worst thing about being a octopus?
A: Washing your hands before dinner.
(each day 24/7 MOMS posts a question and riddle to help you create dinner time conversation with your families)
Sunday, June 26, 2011
Frozen Pudding Pops - Summer Bucket List Fun
Who would have thought a box of vanilla pudding and food coloring could make such a spectacular looking frozen treat for eating. Kids will love creating their own rainbow pattern so add this treat to your Summer bucket list of fun.
Click here to get recipe and instructions from RACKS and Mooby blog.
Real Friends Push
By: Stephanie Fink
Our oldest son, Jake, exited his school bus that sunny Friday afternoon, deflated and defeated. This was entirely different from his normal exit which typically included a big smile, hug and the challenge of a race home.
I inquired, “What’s up bud?” Hesitantly, he told me that on his five minute bus ride home from school, his “friend” closed-fist punched him at least ten times as he was pretending to be a robot.
Jake asked his friend to stop hitting him but his friend continued. I asked Jake why he didn’t move to another seat. He was afraid that his bus driver would yell at him since they have assigned seats. I feared the answer to my next question, “Well, how did that make you feel honey?”
His sad eyes spoke louder than his words, “Scared.”
I lifted Jake’s shirt and observed the numerous red marks on his milky-white core. My insides were more explosive than a fourth of July sky. Silently, I cried out to the Lord, “Father, why? Help!”
Confused and hurt Jake asked, “Why’d my friend hit me?” I embraced him tightly, “Honey, real friends don’t punch.” Jake balled up on my lap like a cat in a sun spot and cried. I felt powerless that I was not able to protect him there on that bus.
To add to the moment, my anchor of a husband was working overseas. If there ever was I time that I needed to not just be the adult, but also act like one…it was now.
Jake and I prayed and came up with a plan of action. He agreed that after I talked to this boy’s parents, he was going to talk to his friend too.
I called the boy's mother and told her what happened and if after she talked with her son, if Jake could speak with him. She agreed. When she called back, Jake courageously asked his friend, “Why did you punch me? You made me feel sad.” The boy replied, “I didn’t hit you.”
Jake dropped the phone and went to cry. Over the span of the weekend, the boy's parents called three more times, to tell me that their son didn’t budge and that he “didn’t hit Jake.”
Confused and hurt, Jake asked, “Why would my friend lie?” Embracing his little body, I whispered, “Honey, real friends don’t punch and real friends don’t lie. He is not a real friend.” Jake balled hysterically.
Our Saturday morning devotion theme was this, to P-U-S-H.
P -ray
U-ntil
S-omething
H-appens
I asked our sons who they wanted to "p-u-s-h" for. Without hesitation, Jake said this little boy, “that God would make him my friend.” I put on a poker face, knowing Jake was right, but I won’t lie, I wanted this little boy to pay for what he did to my son.
“What an awesome idea Jake. Let’s pray right now.” So we lifted our heavy hearts and prayers to the most real friend I’ve ever known, Jesus.
During my Sunday morning private time, I can across this verse, “If someone strikes you, don’t hit back. Love your friend and love your enemies. When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the energies of prayer.”
I shared Matthew 5:32-48, (Message) over breakfast and told him, "That’s what God told us to do - respond with prayer - and you did it! You are a great friend to God and this boy. Mom and Dad are so proud of you, and most importantly God IS proud of you son!"
Again, Jake decided right there and then to pray for this boy to, “make a thumbs up choice” and tell the truth.
Again, he p-u-s-h-ed and again, my heart pulled.
Monday morning arrived. Jake knew I was contacting school administration because being hit is not okay. I learned three things that day: 1. the boy's father went in before school started. 2. the boy not only admitted but apologized for punching Jake. 3. that real friends don’t punch, they push.
Jake’s bedtime prayer that night which was just like him; short and sweet, “God, thank you for answering my prayers.” With misted eyes, I said a hearty, “Amen!”
One year later, the very same boy that punched Jake, stood up for him when a lunchbox inadvertently hit Jake in the back of his head. This boy found told the teacher, and stood up for Jake, cause that’s what real friends, like God, do. They show up for you when you have no words to speak.
Navigating through life's pulls, pushes and punches are difficult. Impossible if it wasn't for God. God used my elementary aged son to teach me that true friends don’t punch, no - they push. They pray until something happens.
Steph's writing has appeared in Proverbs 31 Ministry, P31 Woman magazine. In her free time she can be found encouraging numerous MOPS group in the northern Virginia area on the "Colorful Art of Friendship - Allowing God to Paint the Masterpieces" and MOPS leaders on "Being a Bright Light".
Steph can be found blogging at www.encouragedinheart.org or on Facebook at Stephanie Fink or on her Facebook page Encouraged in Heart - Stephanie Fink. She loves big hair, big cups of coffee and big bear hugs.
Our oldest son, Jake, exited his school bus that sunny Friday afternoon, deflated and defeated. This was entirely different from his normal exit which typically included a big smile, hug and the challenge of a race home.
I inquired, “What’s up bud?” Hesitantly, he told me that on his five minute bus ride home from school, his “friend” closed-fist punched him at least ten times as he was pretending to be a robot.
Jake asked his friend to stop hitting him but his friend continued. I asked Jake why he didn’t move to another seat. He was afraid that his bus driver would yell at him since they have assigned seats. I feared the answer to my next question, “Well, how did that make you feel honey?”
His sad eyes spoke louder than his words, “Scared.”
I lifted Jake’s shirt and observed the numerous red marks on his milky-white core. My insides were more explosive than a fourth of July sky. Silently, I cried out to the Lord, “Father, why? Help!”
Confused and hurt Jake asked, “Why’d my friend hit me?” I embraced him tightly, “Honey, real friends don’t punch.” Jake balled up on my lap like a cat in a sun spot and cried. I felt powerless that I was not able to protect him there on that bus.
To add to the moment, my anchor of a husband was working overseas. If there ever was I time that I needed to not just be the adult, but also act like one…it was now.
Jake and I prayed and came up with a plan of action. He agreed that after I talked to this boy’s parents, he was going to talk to his friend too.
I called the boy's mother and told her what happened and if after she talked with her son, if Jake could speak with him. She agreed. When she called back, Jake courageously asked his friend, “Why did you punch me? You made me feel sad.” The boy replied, “I didn’t hit you.”
Jake dropped the phone and went to cry. Over the span of the weekend, the boy's parents called three more times, to tell me that their son didn’t budge and that he “didn’t hit Jake.”
Confused and hurt, Jake asked, “Why would my friend lie?” Embracing his little body, I whispered, “Honey, real friends don’t punch and real friends don’t lie. He is not a real friend.” Jake balled hysterically.
Our Saturday morning devotion theme was this, to P-U-S-H.
P -ray
U-ntil
S-omething
H-appens
I asked our sons who they wanted to "p-u-s-h" for. Without hesitation, Jake said this little boy, “that God would make him my friend.” I put on a poker face, knowing Jake was right, but I won’t lie, I wanted this little boy to pay for what he did to my son.
“What an awesome idea Jake. Let’s pray right now.” So we lifted our heavy hearts and prayers to the most real friend I’ve ever known, Jesus.
During my Sunday morning private time, I can across this verse, “If someone strikes you, don’t hit back. Love your friend and love your enemies. When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the energies of prayer.”
I shared Matthew 5:32-48, (Message) over breakfast and told him, "That’s what God told us to do - respond with prayer - and you did it! You are a great friend to God and this boy. Mom and Dad are so proud of you, and most importantly God IS proud of you son!"
Again, Jake decided right there and then to pray for this boy to, “make a thumbs up choice” and tell the truth.
Again, he p-u-s-h-ed and again, my heart pulled.
Monday morning arrived. Jake knew I was contacting school administration because being hit is not okay. I learned three things that day: 1. the boy's father went in before school started. 2. the boy not only admitted but apologized for punching Jake. 3. that real friends don’t punch, they push.
Jake’s bedtime prayer that night which was just like him; short and sweet, “God, thank you for answering my prayers.” With misted eyes, I said a hearty, “Amen!”
One year later, the very same boy that punched Jake, stood up for him when a lunchbox inadvertently hit Jake in the back of his head. This boy found told the teacher, and stood up for Jake, cause that’s what real friends, like God, do. They show up for you when you have no words to speak.
Navigating through life's pulls, pushes and punches are difficult. Impossible if it wasn't for God. God used my elementary aged son to teach me that true friends don’t punch, no - they push. They pray until something happens.
Steph's writing has appeared in Proverbs 31 Ministry, P31 Woman magazine. In her free time she can be found encouraging numerous MOPS group in the northern Virginia area on the "Colorful Art of Friendship - Allowing God to Paint the Masterpieces" and MOPS leaders on "Being a Bright Light".
Steph can be found blogging at www.encouragedinheart.org or on Facebook at Stephanie Fink or on her Facebook page Encouraged in Heart - Stephanie Fink. She loves big hair, big cups of coffee and big bear hugs.
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